Many folks assume that vanity is the root of shallowness and narcissism. It encourages unnecessary expenditures, harm, and a deceptive image. This was something I used to believe. I’ve recognized its unappealing reputation and refused to consider its powerful incentive that drives us to achieve remarkable and resplendent achievements. However, little did we know, it is a part of what makes us human. Vanity is one of the vital signs of life.
I was never the ‘kikay’ kid in our household, and once I hit puberty, I never found myself squandering money on skincare, scents, and other frivolities. It took some time for my circle of friends to influence me, and even longer for me to grasp the meaning of a reliable index for energy and self-regard.
Keeping one’s appearance is a projection of one’s health. From comb overs to muscle flexing, high heels to waxing—it exudes the idea of being in a fine fettle. The willingness to make a significant investment in our upkeep equips us with a strong confidence and independence, and establishes an identity for which our future selves will be grateful for.
I’ve seen both young and old people enjoy services that make them feel good about themselves. Face-lifts, laser treatments, Botox fillers, dental practices, working out, painting balayage streaks into hair, and dressing glamorously all come at a high cost, but these outlays are no impediment to disseminating a message about who you were, who you always have been, and who you will continue to be.
People frequently ponder whether good qualities can be seen in an attractive person’s face or whether beauty truly is only skin deep. Yes, certain fundamental and significant traits that reveal a person’s character as a partner, employee, parent, and individual can be seen through the lens of beauty. The effort put forth suggests a range of skills, a semblance of control, and a sense of one’s dignity.
Vanity doesn’t make us absurd or full to the brim. Instead, it elevates a sense of liberation and pleases only ourselves.
